By: coryvonseg October 5, 2019 Books, Life Lessons, philosophy, psychologyfeatured, Life Lessons, philosophy, psychology, relationships, self, Self Help1 Comment

Don’t Change Too Much

If there were two little words that I’ve probably used more than any other two words, it would be these: “I’m sorry” You might already know where I’m going with this, especially because of the title, but I want speak on this topic anyway. And I’m not going to say anything mind-blowingly new here. Several…

By: coryvonseg September 14, 2019September 14, 2019 Books, Life LessonsBooks, featured, how to win friends and influence people, philosophy, psychology, reading, Self HelpLeave a Comment

A Modern Approach to: How To Win Friends and Influence People

So this is going to be a little bit off-topic then my more recent posts. I’ve recently been listening to the audio-book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, a classic if you may, and I’m not really trying to provide any kind of summary, as you’ll find about 10 million of…

By: coryvonseg September 7, 2019September 7, 2019 Life Lessons, Moviesfeatured, life, Life Lessons, motivation, Movies, philosophy, psychology, self2 Comments

I Like Movies With Bad Endings

So in my last post I wrote (if you haven’t read it) I briefly mention the movie 500 Days of Summer. And if you haven’t seen the movie, it’s essentially a “failed romance” in that the two main characters don’t end up falling in love, but rather, drift apart and, ultimately, move on. Honestly, from…

By: coryvonseg August 31, 2019 Life Lessons, Moviesfate, featured, life, love, morals, Movies, psychology, relationshipsLeave a Comment

It Was Never Meant To Be

Chances are, if you’re reading this, you fall into 1 of 2 categories: You believe in fate. You don’t believe in fate. The thing is, many of us, at one point or another, have probably been able to identify with both categories, and actually most of us end up falling into a 3rd category: We…

By: coryvonseg August 11, 2019August 18, 2019 Life Lessons, Uncategorizeddepression, featured, infj, life, Life Lessons, meaning, motivation, pain, personality, philosophy, psychology, relationships, religion1 Comment

An Unhealthy Way of Dealing With Insecurities

We all have insecurities. That’s not anything new to anyone. We also have our own ways of coping with our insecurities, again, nothing new here. And with all coping mechanisms, there is one more obvious fact I want to share: some are good and some are bad. So what’s a good way to cope with…

By: coryvonseg November 23, 2018August 18, 2019 Books, psychologyfeatured, life, Life Lessons, meaning, philosophy, religion6 Comments

Notes from Underground

There are few books in my life, maybe even none at all, that I can truly say they changed my life after reading them. I know that’s such a cliche thing to say, as, it’s cliche to say things like “this book changed my life”, but after reading Notes from Underground, by Dostoevsky, and it’s…

By: coryvonseg October 10, 2018August 18, 2019 Life Lessonsfeatured2 Comments

The Problem isn’t with Small Talk, it’s You.

I read something today that really struck me, and I don’t mean that lightly. I find that I’m consistently reading things that continuously make me question my own beliefs, and I think that’s a good thing, but it could also mean I don’t have very strong beliefs, but that’s not what I’m trying to get…

What Should You Know About Me?

Well, there’s not a lot to say about myself. It’s not that I don’t have my own complex issues going on in my life, but rather, I’m really am not sure what to say that could properly explain who I am. First, I’m a writer. But what does that mean? I think it means I…

My Photo Gallery

I’m sort of an amateur photographer. I enjoy taking pictures of nature, people, and just cool things I see. Here is my Gallery of photos. If you have any questions or would like to know more about any of my pictures, please contact me. I’ll keep adding photos as I post more!

“You Should Seek Professional Help”

By: coryvonseg August 26, 2019September 14, 2019

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I’m going to start this post with what I’m about to say it’s going to be an extremely unpopular opinion for a lot of people out there. The funny thing about unpopular opinions is that they are often unpopular because within them hides that small grain of truth most of us don’t want to face…

To My 16 Year Old Self

By: coryvonseg August 24, 2019September 14, 2019

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So I will admit, this little exercise has become pretty popular nowadays. It’s where you reflect on your life, and ask your self, what would I tell my 16 year-old self, if I could? Now it doesn’t have to be your sixteen-year-old self. It could be your ten year old self, your twenty year old…

You’re Not Who You Think You Are

By: coryvonseg August 17, 2019August 26, 2019

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Who do you think you are? I mean that literally. Do you think you’re a good person? A loving, caring person? A generous and kind person? A humble and selfless person? Maybe you don’t think so highly of yourself. Maybe you think you’re an awful person. Maybe you’ve done some things that, in hindsight, you…

The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Walked Away From

By: coryvonseg August 15, 2019

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Have you ever been in love with someone? And not that fake love, where you say you “love each other” but you both know (maybe not at the time) it’s just infatuation, and once the honeymoon period fades, so does the “love” that came with it. No, but I’m talking about real love, whatever that…

A Single, Short Chapter

By: coryvonseg August 14, 2019

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I’ve recently had a series of what you could call, tragic irony, happen to me. If not that, at the very least, it’s something so absurd and unimaginable, that it’s funny. It’s so sad and almost evil in a way, that I can’t help but laugh and wonder, why me? I’m just gonna spill the…

I’m a Highly Sensitive Person

By: coryvonseg August 3, 2019August 17, 2019

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So this post is going to be much more anecdotal in nature in that I’m not trying to “prove” something to you, or even persuade you to believe a certain idea, but rather, I just want to speak my mind and share a little bit about what I’m feeling, and how I’ve been the past…

When to Give Up….

By: coryvonseg July 27, 2019August 17, 2019

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Something that I’ve revealed here in the past, one of which I still, to this day, feel very passionate about, is that I’m a very vivid dreamer. I have several dreams every night, most of which I can remember if I try. Granted, not all dreams seem to have significant importance, but there are those…

Starting Over

By: coryvonseg July 20, 2019

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What does it mean to “start over”? Like really, what do people mean when they say “I’m just gonna start over”. Now, whether that be with a new job, new relationship, new education path, it doesn’t really matter, it seems as though we hear those 2 words from ourselves and others whenever we find out…

Why Don’t Thing Work Out?

By: coryvonseg July 19, 2019August 17, 2019

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As I write this, there’s only one question that comes to mind. Why don’t things work out? Do you ever feel like that enough shit has happened in your life, enough people have hurt you, put you down, lied to you, or whatever it is, you feel like you deserve something to work out? And…

One Step At A Time

By: coryvonseg July 16, 2019August 17, 2019

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Wow. It’s been awhile hasn’t it. I haven’t wrote on here in close to 3 months, and I find that crazy. But what’s there to say now? Should I catch you all up on what’s been going on in my life? Hmmm. I think not. Rather, I want to just share a few words of…